Poster Boy for "bad guyism"

There is a married guy currently toasting me and I feel like swearing for him and all his generation (But hey Onyi, take it easy nah!) Like Lagbaja sang, “na [him] right to ask [me], na my [choice] whether [I go gree].) So we are still thinksing abourrit!

When I put this question to some of my female friends they all had varying opinions.

One of them who actually dated a married man (only one) said she stopped because she believed in the law of Karma and did not want any young woman dating her husband in future (too late, methinks).

Another friend poohed poohed that theory of the law of Karma. According to her, whether you date a married guy or not, your husband is still gonna cheat on you.

Which brings me to my theory: Ladies (Guys), if you expect your future husband (wife) to live up to your expectations, do not expect the worst from him (her).

I am expecting no one cheats on me as I hope the person expects I don’t cheat on him.

I believe in the integrity of the marriage bed as naive as that sounds. I also believe in not only being faithful to your partner but also to your God and more importantly to yourself (especially if you do not believe in God). Call me naive (again) but I think in the end my naivete will pay off. If it doesn’t then it’s the dude’s loss.

As for my married toaster, what can I say, I am enjoying the attention. So like I said we are still thinksing abourrit *wink* *wink*